Condolence: Dear Karen , You are in my thoughts and prayers. Sending u a hug. May memories comfort u during this first year anniversary. Keep looking for cardinals !

Condolence: To Karen,and family, So very sorry for your loss...No words can ease your pain. You are all in my prayers. I pray the happy memories you have of Thomas,will ease your grief and comfort you. Sincerely, Sue Cotela

Condolence: Karen, I am so very sorry to read about Thomas' passing. Though it's been some time since our Calvary days, I have thought of you often and wondered how you were doing. I never imagined that you would have to go through something as tragic as the loss of one of your sons. My heart breaks for you, Jason and all of Thomas' family. Please know that you are in my thoughts and prayers during this extremely difficult time. Sue

Condolence: Karen and Brian and family, we are devastated by this tragic loss of Thomas, as we know this all too well. We have never met Thomas but have heard you speak of him and his courageous journey often over the years. Karen, there are no words to express my sadness for you. We are carrying you all on our hearts and minds. You and I spoke often about the challenges of addiction with family and you were always so patient, hopeful and also honest about what you and Thomas and your family were facing every day. Your persistent belief in Thomas and your love for him are a model for all of us to follow, as our society turns away more and more from the disease of addiction. We love you and are here for you.

Condolence: So very sorry for your loss. Reading what you wrote brought tears to my eyes. So so sorry.

Condolence: Karen and family I am so sorry for the loss of your son. Your family is in my prayers. I certainly understand how devastating drug addiction is and the effect on the family. Know you are not alone. Sue

Condolence: Dear, dear Karen, I cannot imagine the pain you are feeling or the emptiness in your heart at this time. But I do know that all the memories you have of your son will live on forever and help you through this difficult time. God bless you. With love and strong hugs M.T.

Condolence: Karen, we are so saddened to hear about Thomas. Our most sincere condolences. Jim and Kim

Condolence: Dear Karen & Brian, There are beautiful souls that just can't take the pain that this life holds. Your beautiful T.J. seems to be one of them...now he is with his Holy Father and his Earthly Father whom he missed so very much.... our hearts and prayers are with yours during these painful days... Much love, Enrique & Jude

Condolence: Karen & Tom's family: I am so heart broken this has happened he was such a joy to have in class and it was great to see him over the years after leaving high school. I no nothing will dull the pain of losing him, except to say that he was loved and appreciated by many people. You are all in my heart and prayers.

Condolence: Oh Karen I am so very sorry - my heart breaks for you and your family. sending much love Mary.

Condolence: What a beautiful tribute to your son! My heart breaks for you as I can completely relate to every word you wrote. Such a loss should never be experienced by any family and until everyone can speak as honestly and as openly as you just did, this will continue to be a subject for most people that is too untidy to discuss in polite company. We must not let them do that to our loved ones. Thank you, Mrs. Fitzpatrick for apply salve to my wounds which I have carried for many years after losing my son to this same horrible disease called Addiction. It is a silent killer, one that is easier to stigmatize than understand. Since Empathy and love. Hope M. Rice Enfield

Condolence: I lost my son yesterday. I wish no one in the world ever has to experience the tremendous amount of pain and heartache I am feeling at this moment. Both of my sons mean the world to me. They are everything to me. Thomas was the kindest, most gentle, caring person. He had a zest for life. Before his dad passed, he loved life and was on his way to working in the psychology profession. If he had made it, I'm sure he would have been such a strong sense of support for all the people he cared for. After his dad’s passing, he lost his way, and could not handle the pain, stress, or life in general. He began to change but every once in awhile I could still see glimpses of my son. He had been at Mountainside for the last 40 days up until his death. They did a great job with him helping him to get better, and working on everything that brought him to his point of recovery. I felt as if my son was finally back. He was on his way. When we picked him up Friday, he discussed his plans for the future. Something I hadn't heard in 3 years. He was excited about working towards spending more time with his family, exercising, working with Jason, walking his dog and just starting to live and enjoy life again. Not sure what happened after 8:00 Friday night, but the next morning he was dead. I can blame many people, doctors, so called “friends”.....who gave him the drugs and started him on that path. The point is that this Mother's Day I was not be able to spend it with both my sons. I will never be able to do that again. Thomas meant the world to me. The last words he said to me were "I love you and don't worry mom, I'll be alright." I love you son. You are in my heart forever. You will be missed tremendously. We spoke almost every day. This is the hardest thing I've ever had to deal with. We thank all you for your kind thoughts. Please remember the wonderful person he was, and don't forget the horrible hold this drug epidemic has on many around you. There are many families like us out there. We need your support. Hug your children. Let them know you love them on this day and every Mother's Day. Mom

Condolence: Dear Fitzpatrick family, I am very sorry for the loss of your loved one. May your family find comfort in God's promise of paradise where there will be no more pain, sickness, or sorrow due to the loss of your loved one, and the hope of being reunited in paradise in perfect health. Please accept my sincere condolences. Revelation 21 : 3,4 - Psalms 37 : 4,29

Condolence: Karen, my deepest sympathy for your loss.