Herbert Sobanski

Herbert Sobanski

Friday, January 6th, 1961 Saturday, November 2nd, 2019

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Obituary for Herbert S. "Herb" Sobanski Jr.

Herbert S. Sobanski, Jr., 58, of Enfield, beloved husband of Sherri (Webb) Sobanski, passed away on Saturday, November 2, 2019 at his home. Born in New Britain, CT on January 6, 1961, he was the son of the late Herbert S. and Simone Alice (LaFlamme) Sobanski and grew up in New Britain. Herb was presently working for Aetna as an Infrastructure Engineer at the time of his passing. A true outdoorsman, Herb loved anything related to the natural world. He always referred to the woods and swamp as his church. He was a tireless advocate for the fishing, hunting, and trapping community through legislation and education. Herb was the President of the Connecticut Fur Harvesters Association, and the chief instructor for the State DEEP as well as a trapping mentor to countless individuals. Besides his beloved wife Sherri, he leaves his 5 loving children, Joseph Sobanski of Berlin, Germany, Nicholas Sobanski of Manchester, Brian and Lillian Sobanski of Enfield, and William Eastham of Ellington; 4 siblings, David Sobanski of Waterford, Lynne Cavanna of South Glastonbury, Danette Pape of Cody, WY, and Cathy Caron of New Britain; and his in-laws, William and Barbara Webb of Enfield. His family will receive friends on Wednesday, November 6, 2019 from 4-7 PM at Leete-Stevens Enfield Chapels, 61 South Rd. Enfield. A Mass of Christian Burial will be held on Thursday, November 7, at 10 AM, DIRECTLY at Holy Family Church, Enfield. Everyone is asked to meet at the church. Burial will be private in Enfield St. Cemetery, Enfield. For online condolences, please visit

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  • Visitation

    Wednesday, November 6th, 2019 | 4:00pm - 7:00pm
    Leete Stevens Enfield Chapels
    61 South Rd.
    Enfield, CT
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    Wednesday, November 6th, 2019
    4:00pm - 7:00pm
  • Mass of Christian Burial

    Thursday, November 7th, 2019 | 10:00am
    Holy Family Church
    23 Simon Rd.
    Enfield, CT
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    Thursday, November 7th, 2019
    Please Meet Directly At Church
  • Interment

    Enfield Street Cemetery, Enfield
    Enfield St
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Steve Culton

I went to school with Herb from K-12. He was in my first Cub Scout Den. We were doing a class project at Smith School that had to do with zodiac signs and I remember Herb saying he was a Capricorn. (I know, strange that I would remember that, but I remember lots of childhood fragments like that.) We played ninth grade football together. We were bar buddies when I was in college and after college. (Once, Herb left a cigar or cigarette ash on a coffee table in my parents' house. They still have that coffee table and the mark is still there -- and every time over the years I've seen it I've thought of Herb. I will continue to do so.) Herb and I lost touch for decades, but recently reconnected on Facebook. As an avid fly fisherman, we had that outdoors connection. I'll think of Herb when I fish in Sessions Woods. Please accept my sympathies and condolences for your loss.
Steve Culton
Comment | Posted at 05:40pm via Condolence

Danette Pape

In the voice of my departed brother.
“Oh, Great Spirit, whose voice I hear in the wind,
Whose breath gives life to all the world.
Hear me; I need your strength and wisdom.
Let me walk in beauty, and make my eyes ever
behold the red and purple sunset.
Make my hands respect the things you have
made and my ears sharp to hear your voice.
Make me wise so that I may understand
the things you have taught my people.

Help me to remain calm and strong in
the face of all that comes towards me.
Let me learn the lessons you have hidden
in every leaf and rock.

Help me seek pure thoughts and act
with the intention of helping others.
Help me find compassion without
empathy overwhelming me.

I seek strength, not to be greater than my brother,
but to fight my greatest enemy Myself.Make me always ready to come to you
with clean hands and straight eyes.

So when life fades, as the fading sunset,
my spirit may come to you without shame.
Comment | Posted at 05:37pm via Condolence

Barbara Greene

Sherri and family, We are sorry to hear of your loss and are thinking of you during this difficult time. Deepest sympathy, Steve O'Brien and Barbara Greene
Comment | Posted at 05:33pm via Condolence

louis csinsi

Sorry to hear of the loss of Herbie. Growing up living next door to the Sobanskis gave our entire family warmth and joy. We were very close almost like family for many of his younger years. Regards Louis Csinsi

Comment | Posted at 06:41pm via Condolence

Preksha Patel

I never met Herb in person but we worked together over email and phone. He was a wonderful person to work with and always willing to help. Herb you will be greatly missed.
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